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17 May 2026

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Teenage Aggression: Is Media Really to Blame?

By Dr. Aida Harlina Binti Abdul Razak

Today, parents are raising children in a world where screens are deeply woven into everyday activities. While parents may try to limit their children’s digital activity, doing so entirely is nearly impossible. Violent video games, viral fight clips, online drama, constant notifications, and social media comparisons have become part of daily life.

So, when a teenager becomes more irritable, rude, or aggressive, parents may begin to wonder:
“Is it the phone?”
“Is it the games?”
“Is social media making my child angry?”

The honest answer is that while digital media can play a role, it is rarely the only cause.

What Research Tells Us

Decades of research show a small but consistent link between exposure to violent media and aggressive behaviour in young people.
However, this does not mean that every teen who plays a shooting game or watches an action movie will become violent. Media is better understood as heat under a pot. If the pot is already filled with stress, anger, or emotional pain, added heat can cause it to boil over more easily. If the pot is relatively calm and supported by healthy habits and strong relationships, the same heat may have little effect.

The Teenage Brain

Two major processes are happening during adolescence:

  • The emotional brain (responsible for excitement, fear, anger, and reward) is highly active during the teenage years.
  • The thinking brain (which controls impulses, plans ahead, and weighs consequences) is still maturing and will only fully develop in the mid-20s.

When teens consume violent content, their emotional brain is strongly activated. Meanwhile, the rational part is still catching up.

Over time, intense media can make everyday life seem boring, increasing a teen’s desire for extreme stimulation and drama.

Which Comes First: Aggressive Teens or Aggressive Content?

The relationship goes both ways.

Some teens already carry emotional pain and are drawn to intense media because it matches how they feel. Others start off relatively calm but become more reactive after repeated exposure to aggressive content.

Media does not create aggression on its own but amplifies and reinforces what is already happening inside a teen.

Why Teens Are More Sensitive

Teenagers are in a crucial stage of identity-building, and much of this exploration now happens online.

Because of this, teens are particularly affected by:

  • Comments about their appearance or abilities
  • Being excluded from groups or social events
  • Numbers linked to social judgment, such as likes, views, and followers

These often cause hurt, shame, or fear—emotions that teens may not yet know how to express in healthier ways.

Beyond screens

Other contributors to aggression include:

  • Family conflict: Frequent arguments teach teens that this is a normal way to handle problems.
  • Sleep deprivation: Lack of sleep makes teens irritable and less able to control impulses.
  • Bullying at school: Feelings of fear and humiliation may later explode as anger elsewhere.
  • Academic pressure: Constant stress about performance can cause frustration and outbursts.
  • Mental health conditions: Anxiety, ADHD, and trauma can all reduce emotional control.

What Can Families Do?

Completely banning devices is usually unrealistic and can drive use “underground.” Instead, aim for guided, healthy use.

Rather than, “You’re always on that stupid phone,”

Instead, try: “I notice you seem more upset after spending a long time online. How does it make you feel?”

Set reasonable boundaries together, such as:

  • No phones during meals
  • No screens at least one hour before bed
  • Charging devices outside the bedroom at night
  • Agreed daily limits on gaming or social media

If parents constantly check their own phones or rant online, it sends a negative message. Show that it’s okay to put phones away and disagree respectfully.

Encourage face-to-face activities so that teens do not only depend on social media for their self-worth.

Most importantly, keep the door open. Let them know, “If something online makes you feel scared, ashamed, or very upset, you can always talk to me. I won’t just punish you; I will help you.”

When Is It Time to Seek Help?

Do seek expert opinions if:

  • Aggression is more frequent, intense, and/or frightening
  • There are physical fights, threats, or destruction of property
  • Your teen seems withdrawn, hopeless, or has big changes in sleep or appetite
  • They talk about not wanting to live, self-harm, or “disappearing”

A mental health professional will look at the full picture and to understand whether the media is a main driver, a contributing factor, or just one piece of a larger problem.

From there, they can suggest methods to counteract the underlying cause.

Moving Beyond Blame

Teenagers are are complex human beings, trying to grow up in a demanding and highly connected world.

Instead of wondering if media is to blame, a more helpful question is:

“What is this teenager going through, online and offline and how can we support them better?”

With timely help, most teenagers can learn to use media more wisely and grow into adults who respond with thought, not just anger.

This article first appeared in Sinar Harian, 17 May 2026

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